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STOP Putting Others First: Managing Your Mental Health Through Self-Care

Updated: Oct 1, 2023

Managing Your Mental Health through Self-Care

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Self-care refers to the actions and activities that individuals take to maintain their physical, mental, and emotional health.

It can include a wide range of activities, such as exercise, proper nutrition, getting enough sleep, practicing mindfulness, and engaging in hobbies and activities that bring joy and relaxation.

Maintaining good mental health is essential for overall well-being and can impact an individual's physical health, relationships, and ability to function in daily life.

It is important to prioritize self-care and make it a regular part of your routine to promote mental health and well-being.


Identifying your self-care needs for mental health

It is important to be aware of your own self-care needs and recognize when you may be neglecting your own well-being.

This can involve paying attention to your physical and emotional symptoms, as well as your daily habits and activities.

There are several techniques that can be helpful in identifying your self-care needs.

These can include:


Writing about your thoughts and feelings can help you identify patterns and areas where you may be neglecting your self-care.



Paying attention to your present-moment experiences, including your thoughts, feelings, and surroundings, can help you become more aware of your self-care needs.

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Seeking feedback from trusted sources:

Asking friends, family, or a therapist for their perspective can help you gain insight into your self-care needs.


Incorporating self-care activities into your daily routine

Making self-care a regular part of your routine can help you prioritize your well-being and ensure that you are consistently taking care of yourself.

It can be challenging to find time and motivation for self-care, but here are three strategies that can help:

(1) Set aside dedicated self-care time:

Schedule time for self-care activities just as you would any other important appointment.

Set aside dedicated self-care time

(2) Find activities that you enjoy:

Choose self-care activities that you find enjoyable and that you will be more likely to stick with.

activities that you enjoy

(3) Make self-care a habit:

The more you engage in self-care activities, the more they will become a natural part of your routine.

self-care a habit

Three examples of self-care activities include:

(1) Exercise:

Physical activity can improve mood and reduce stress.


(2) Meditation:

Mindfulness and meditation practices can help reduce anxiety and improve overall well-being.


(3) Hobbies and activities that bring joy:

Engaging in activities that bring you joy and relaxation, such as reading, cooking, or gardening, can be a form of self-care.

Hobbies and activities


Seeking professional help when needed

While self-care is an important aspect of maintaining mental health, sometimes individuals may need additional support to address mental health concerns.

Seeking professional help, such as therapy or medication, can be an effective way to address mental health issues and improve well-being.

A mental health professional can provide guidance and support to help you better understand and manage your mental health.

Seeking professional help

3 Tips for effective self-care

(1) Set realistic goals:

Don't try to take on too much at once.

Start with small, achievable goals and gradually increase the intensity or frequency of your self-care activities.

Set realistic goals

(2) Vary your self-care activities:

Incorporate a variety of self-care activities into your routine to prevent boredom and ensure that you are addressing all aspects of your well-being.

(3) Seek support:

Don't be afraid to ask for help when it comes to self-care.

This could mean seeking support from friends or family, joining a self-care support group, or working with a therapist or coach.



Three common barriers to self-care and how to overcome them

(1) Time constraints:

It can be difficult to find time for self-care when you have a lot of other responsibilities.

Try to prioritize self-care and make it a non-negotiable part of your routine.

You can also try to find ways to integrate self-care into your daily activities, such as taking a walk during your lunch break or doing a few yoga stretches before bed.

 Time constraints

(2) Lack of motivation:

It can be hard to find the motivation to engage in self-care, especially if you are feeling overwhelmed or depressed.

Try to focus on the benefits of self-care and the positive impact it can have on your well-being.

You can also try to find activities that you enjoy or that bring you a sense of accomplishment or fulfillment.

(3) Shame or guilt:

Some individuals may feel guilty or ashamed for taking time for themselves or may believe that they don't deserve to prioritize their own well-being.

It is important to remember that self-care is not selfish, and that taking care of yourself is essential for your overall well-being and the well-being of those around you.

Shame or guilt


The role of self-care in preventing burnout

Burnout can occur when an individual is overwhelmed and stressed, and feels like they are unable to meet the demands of their daily life.

Engaging in regular self-care can help prevent burnout by providing a sense of balance and helping you manage stress.

Self-care can also be helpful in recovering from burnout if it has already occurred.

It is important to prioritize self-care and give yourself time to rest and recharge after experiencing burnout.

The role of self-care in preventing burnout



Self-care is essential for maintaining good mental health and overall well-being.

By identifying your self-care needs and incorporating self-care activities into your daily routine, you can prioritize your well-being and improve your mental health.

If you are struggling to manage your mental health, seeking professional help can be an effective way to get the support you need.

Don't be afraid to ask for help, and remember that self-care is not selfish – it is an important aspect of taking care of yourself and those around you.

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